Причини контролюючої поведінки у матерів дітей підліткового віку

Abstract

Розкрито причини контролюючої поведінки в матерів дітей раннього підліткового віку для ліпшого розуміння цієї проблематики з можливістю в подальшому корекції певних аспектів виховання. З’ясовано, які саме чинники впливають на формування такої поведінки матерів дітей-підлітків, адже батьківський контроль впливає на розвиток особистості дитини, на формування самосприйняття, самооцінку, самоцінність та її ставлення до самої себе і світу загалом. The reasons of controlling behavior that is characteristic for mothers of early adolescents are revealed, for a better understanding of this issue with the possibility of further correction of certain aspects of upbringing. The aim of the article is to fnd out what factors influence the formation of controlling behavior of adolescents’ mothers, because parental control greatly contributes to the development of the child’s personality, influences the formation of self-perception, self-esteem, self-worth and attitude to himself and the world. A YSQ – S3 questionnaire of a scheme-therapy, developed by Young and co-authors in 2003 was used in the study. This technique allows us to fnd out what dysfunctional schemes can cause maternal control behavior. It is known that dysfunctional schemes are defned as general models (patterns) of life that affect cognition, emotions, memories, behavior, peculiarities of perception of social situations and relationships with other people, and thus affect relationships with their own children. According to this questionnaire, 18 schemes were identifed, which are divided into fve groups depending on the level of satisfaction of the basic needs of the respondent. The object of this study is the mothers of teenage children, and the subject of the study are reasons that affect the controlling behavior of mothers of teenage children. The research program includes a survey of adolescents’ mothers in order to identify similar psychological patterns, which would indicate the common features of controlling mothers. Analyzing the causes of controlling behavior, it was found out that the implementation of parental attitudes occurs due to their anxiety, neuroticism, inconsistency, conflict. That is, personal problems of mothers have a very strong influence on the problematic behavior in raising children. In general, anxiety, perfectionism and affectivity constitute the most typical triad of deviations in upbringing.